Thursday, April 7, 2011

"I LOVE A RED BONE !"

   Boy am I sick of hearing that . " I love a red bone" , " I love me a light skin girl ". BLAH BLAH BLAH. I just posted on my fb about this and I don't care if a person prefers light skin over dark or whatever but don't knock a dark skin girl because your not attracted to her. THERE ARE FLAWS IN EVERYONE. People are beautiful for many different reasons. Not just because they have super long WEAVE or green CONTACTS or is super light skin. WHO CARES!? I wish people would stop trying to play GOD and pass judgement on others because they are not their cup of tea. What if when you have children they come out darker?? You gonna love them different because their not the shade you want them to be? Or are you gonna tell your little girl who came home crying because none of the boys pay any attention to her because she is "TOO DARK" that she should be proud of her skin and stand up straight and know that she is beautiful. Shoot, my mom is light skin and I'm dark, granted my father is dark but it is possible to have a darker or lighter skin kid even if you aren't that tone.

   I was one of those girls that was always so down on herself because I always felt like I wasn't good enough. I was always afraid to stand out because I didn't wanna be judged. Instead of "bashing" what you don't like how bout you keep your mouth shut.. Especially because these younger generations who are acting out because of low self-esteem and hurt and anger need to know that they are worth more than what people give them credit for.

  I believe in myself , FINALLY ! I know I am a beautiful dark skin woman on the inside and out !